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bicultureblog · 2 months ago

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Bi culture is not relating (for me, it's also being irritated) to any 'bisexual stereotype' like 'bisexual sitting pose', 'finger guns', 'frogs', etc.

I'm a bi who doesn't fit in these stereotypes, and constantly seeing them on social media makes me just feel awkward (?). Like, no, I'm sure not all bisexuals are like that, what do you mean? I personally, due to my back problems, sit straight (and even without them, I would cause it's comfortable), absolutely hate frogs, am not a 'golden retriever man' (or w/e is that), etc. Not seeing bisexuals who don't fit in the stereotypes is a bit (a lot) appalling, since there are zero bisexuals in a place where I live, so that's why I try to find them online... soo, any bisexuals who don't fit into the stereotypes?

April 12, 2025.

#bi culture #bi #bisexual #biromantic #god yeah the arbitrary 'bisexuals love iced coffee' 'non-binary people love frogs' type stuff is so weirdly annoying to me #and when the same random thing (e.g. liking frogs) is attributed to seemingly every demographic ever...#at some point you have to consider the possibility that Maybe Frogs Are Just In Right Now #maybe this isn't a bisexual thing or a lesbian thing or whatever but simply a Fashion thing or a Your Social Circles thing #and like it's perfectly normal & ok to be annoying. everyone is annoying to someone no matter what #and there's nothing wrong with these sorts of jokes in themselves! i enjoy them myself plenty when i'm in the mood #but it's really frustrating when you're looking for connection & community & all you get is shallow stereotypes

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